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Inquiring Minds: Janet Cooper-Nelson on pedophilia and the clergy
For the past
several weeks the Roman Catholic Church has been at the center of a firestorm
created by revelations that Boston’s Cardinal Bernard Law and other
church leaders allowed priests accused of molesting children in their parishes
to continue their ministries. In an apparent step toward greater
accountability, bishops across the country acknowledged similar allegations
made against dozens of other priests. University Chaplain Janet Cooper-Nelson (below)
discussed the controversy with the GSJ’s Mary Jo Curtis.
How did this problem reach this
magnitude and continue for so long?
 The absolutely
obvious questions being asked – how could this happen? If it was
happening, why wasn’t something done? Though they sound like simple
questions, they are by no means simple.
In any setting
where there’s a power differential – as between clergy and laity,
and always between adults and children – the potential for wrongdoing
exists. People with aberrant modes of exercising power rarely see themselves as
destructive and are often chosen to lead because of their strengths. Religious organizations of all kinds by
nature are settings within which people seek refuge, especially the broken or
needy. This exacerbates the difficulty of implementing structures of
accountability, seen as both bureaucratic and unforgiving – qualities
that religious organizations tend to be expected to repudiate. However, absent
these structures the boundary-less nature of pastoral work produces unusual
vulnerability for the unsuspecting and unusual opportunity to harm for
predatory individuals.
It’s
important not to get too fascinated with the sex and the nature of the sexual
misconduct; crimes of sexual misconduct – all of them – are power crimes.
Anyone with power can misuse it. Religious people and structures are not
immune.
The Catholic
community, because of its ecclesiastical structure and the celibacy of its
priesthood, faces an acute version. The geographic convergence in a parish of church,
school and rectory provides an environment that can become a closed setting for
misconduct. …. Institutional systems under scrutiny are rarely forthright
about failure of any kind. What organization would be likely to willingly
acknowledge that its leadership harmed children? The revelation of the
prolonged intentional silence may compromise the structural integrity of the
institution as we know it.
Cardinal Law
has been criticized for moving offending priests from parish to parish –
and without warning the new congregation of the problem.
I can only
imagine that the bishop – as the priest’s confessor – was
bound not to breach the offending priest's confidentiality. Offenders may have
been moved to new locations on the mistaken premise that this interruption in
the behavior and the disclosure to the bishop would serve as a deterrent. This
system of “intervention,” if my speculation is accurate, was doomed
from the outset because it is based on a total misperception of the nature of
the psychological disorder from which predatory adult sexual behavior toward
children emerges.
Many of these
cases occurred in ’70s and ’80s, when we had much less
understanding of pedophilia and the subject was taboo. Families didn’t
talk about the predatory uncle; schools ignored the rumors about the teacher
who was inappropriate with his students. Given that, have church leaders
behaved differently from society in general?
You point to a
dynamic that derives primarily from a societal context or what scholars call the
constituitive ethic The question – “Is the
sufferer’s suffering worth the destruction of the system?” –
will be answered differently in different eras because agreement about norms
changes over time. The narrative that is emerging reveals that many people silenced
themselves, were told to be silent or were not believed, because that much
disruption and harm to a valued system was not acceptable. The emergence
– the snowballing – of these stories is occurring in part because
those who were harmed are learning that others were also abused.
Incest is a
similar phenomenon. It was clearly known within families and yet was rarely
discussed openly, nor was it addressed by society as a behavior that could be
stopped. Children might be
instructed to avoid a certain relative, but this caution was often accompanied
with the simultaneous dictate to keep silent. By extension, the mandate
“don’t wreck the family” was easily extrapolated to become
“don’t wreck the church, community or school.” It carried the
very odd and totally unsatisfactory attempt at comfort: the
acknowledgement that this behavior
is bad, but at least it’s only happening to you. The lie of this
construct is now exposed.
What must
happen to prevent this from occurring again?
A clergy person
– like a doctor or psychologist – works in an unboundaried place.
Trustworthiness must be demonstrable. Clergy must create, communicate and be
guided by practices whose hallmark is transparency and whose purpose is the
protection from harm of anyone entrusted to them. In recent years the role of
the physician’s assistant has protected many doctors and patients from
potential misunderstanding. Perhaps clergy whose work includes children in
classroom, worship or recreational settings should routinely include aides,
parents or deacons to ensure that children are not at risk and that no
perception of risk exists.
Will priests
be able to rebuild the sacred trust they’ve had with their parishioners?
That’s
probably the hardest question to gauge. It’s not just the children who
have been injured. Public trust in the whole structure of the institution is
injured in a very serious way, and recovering from that takes hard work and
demonstrable contrition, which is an idea Cardinal Law in his own way has been
trying to espouse.
Should he
resign?
His resignation
could demonstrate the contrition of the organization – he would be
understood to be saying that these crimes happened on my watch, and that his
personal sadness and the institution’s sorrow is best expressed by his
relinquishing the honor of serving as bishop. It would also allow someone who
isn’t tainted by the scandal to lead and begin the process of amendment
of life, which the
Church has to model as well as believe. This action alone will not restore
institutional trust, within or without. Recovery will be long and, regrettably,
there will continue to be deleterious side effects.
The current
heartache and the disclosure are so painful that it can be hard to see good in
it. My prayers for the time being are simple: that those who were silenced and
are now speaking will be heard – and will hear back that what happened to
them was wrong. In this, may they also find their suffering supported, be
awakened from a long nightmare and placed on a sacred path of healing and dignity.
There’s
real reason for hope if we can open the windows, turn on the lights, tell the
truth… We have to collectively say that no one who is truly a humane,
compassionate person, male or female, preys on anybody – that it’s
not acceptable. I would argue that’s something religious communities
across the planet stand for.
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