PROVIDENCE, R.I. [Brown University] — More than a decade later, Ernest Lilavois Jr. still reflects on choices he made as a teenager at Providence’s Mount Pleasant High School — and how differently things might have gone if he’d had a mentor.
“If I’d had someone guiding me earlier, I think I would have made better decisions much sooner,” said Lilavois, now a senior information technology support specialist at Brown University.
That realization inspired Lilavois to become a mentor through Brown’s new college access initiative for cohorts of Providence public school students. Today, he mentors Adrian Leonardo, a sophomore at Providence Career and Technical Academy, guiding the teen through some of the same challenges he once faced.
Lilavois is one of 55 Brown faculty and staff members who volunteer as mentors as part of the Brown Collegiate Scholars Program. Launched in 2023, the free, University-based, multi-year college prep program supports groups of Providence public school students by offering year-round programming to strengthen academic performance, explore interests and prepare students for college and beyond.
While the program’s advisers and tutors focus on academic and college goals, mentors offer something different: an hour each month dedicated to reflection and perspective. The sessions are geared toward helping students build self-awareness, confidence, communication and leadership skills, according to program leaders.
Aleida Benitez, manager of community partnerships at Brown’s Swearer Center and a mentor to Lesley Hernandez, a ninth-grader at Juanita Sanchez Educational Complex, said mentors occupy a unique role because they can build trust without the expectations that often come with parents or teachers.
“It’s not about telling students what they should or shouldn’t do,” Benitez said. “It’s about listening, validating their experiences and reflecting back what you notice about them: ‘I can see you’re really good at this,’ or ‘You seem confident when you talk about that.’ It comes from a place of observation, not judgment.”